Here’s to every (tired) sister of the bride

Credits: Momentum Films

Your womb-mate is getting married. You have countless ideas that you’ve been saving for this special day (maybe years before her partner was even in the picture…don’t worry we’re not judging!). However, there are university assignments, work obligations and often mountains of tasks to complete before you can even contemplate your sister’s wedding. We understand the struggle and so here’s our advice for every sister inundated with things to do, including a wedding to help plan (don’t worry, it’s a brief one — we know you’re busy!).

1. Know what you need to know

You didn’t envision your sister’s wedding to be negative and stressful. This is a time where you can be there for your sister and help to keep her worry-free on her wedding day. An important way to maintain the positive energy is to keep organised. Communication is crucial and discussing a timeframe for the tasks that need to be done, which aligns with both of your schedules, will help to keep you mutually sane and ensure progress towards the wedding dreams.

2. Make memories

Through the every-day routines, life and work, many moments of planning and preparing for your sister’s wedding can slip away. Try and record as many memories as you can, however insignificant it may seem at the time. Those very memories become hugely dear when you have some time to be nostalgic after the wedding to look through the photos and videos in peace. This compilation can doubletake as a sentimental gift that you can give to your sister. She will enjoy your perspective of her wedding journey and there will be plenty of humorous moments!

3. Choose your player(s)

You are not alone. Use your contacts and the people close to you and your sister to help. They are likely keen to contribute and have many talents and ideas that can assist towards your sister’s wedding. You and your sister could bring your nearest and dearest together to share what needs to be done. Our wedding vendors are also ready and waiting to lend a hand. When you work together, the dream starts working and this can save you masses of time to then focus on when you can curb your sleep deprivation.

4. Look after yourself, so you can look after her

When you have other responsibilities and drinking caffeine has minimal impact on your tiredness, it can be challenging to supply the positive vibes and banter. When this happens, recognise it and allow yourself time to reenergise and breathe. A happy sister is a happy sister-bride.

Credit: Momentum Films

Life can get busy and through it all remember that you have each other’s backs. Preparing for this wedding is another opportunity to have fun and add more endearing moments to your sisterly memories. What would she do without you?